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# Three Veteran Matushkas Reflect on Orthodox Life
- URL: https://uoj.news/news/87184-three-veteran-matushkas-reflect-on-orthodox-life/
- Published: 2026-05-21T11:30:00.000Z
- Updated: 2026-09-25T16:09:27.000Z
- Description: Reflections on how faith, service, and perseverance shaped their lives in the Orthodox Church were offered by three longtime matushkas.
- Author: Tobias Straney
- Tags: #Category: News, Orthodox Church in America, clergy wives, Spiritual Retreat, Archbishop Daniel of Chicago and the Midwest

**CHICAGO —** Clergy wives from across the Midwest Diocese [gathered via Zoom](https://domoca.org/wives-of-retired-clergy-shared-stories-and-experiences/) on April 30 to hear reflections from three retired Matushkas whose decades of service offered insight into the joys, challenges, and responsibilities of life in the Orthodox Church in America (OCA).

Matushka Karen Wojcik recounted entering Orthodoxy through her relationship with the man who would become Fr. Theodore Wojcik. Raised in a Protestant tradition and initially unfamiliar with Orthodoxy, she embraced the role of Matushka with enthusiasm and adaptability. Over the years, she helped support parish growth, nurtured community life, and encouraged parishioners through teaching and personal example. She emphasized the importance of remaining true to her own gifts and interests rather than feeling obligated to meet every expectation placed upon clergy wives. Her witness also helped inspire two of her three sons to pursue the priesthood.

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Matushka Valerie Zahirsky reflected on joining the OCA while studying at St. Vladimir’s Seminary and recalled being received into the Church by Fr. Alexander Schmemann. She spoke about family life in the parish and the challenges of balancing Church teachings with practical family concerns, particularly during seasons such as Great Lent.

Matushka Vera Proctor shared how her upbringing in a close-knit Serbian Orthodox community prepared her for parish life and service. She highlighted her work with FOCUS Minnesota, a ministry serving the needs of people in the Twin Cities. Although securing financial support was often difficult, she credited the organization’s longevity to God’s providence and its commitment to serving others.

Previously, the [UOJ reported](https://uoj.news/news/86887-oca-offers-dedicated-retreat-for-priests-wives-and-widows/) that the OCA offered a dedicated retreat for priests’ wives.