Metr. Saba Examines the Cross of Human Relationships

ENGLEWOOD, NJ — In his second reflection on the crosses in our lives, Metr. Saba has reflected on the burdens Christians encounter in their relationships with family members, friends, neighbors and even those who oppose them, describing these responsibilities as a form of the cross that believers are called to carry.

Drawing on the teaching of St. Silouan the Athonite that “our brother is our life,” Saba explains that Christian love expands the meaning of neighbor beyond familiar circles. Caring for others can become painful when loved ones reject assistance, misunderstand intentions, or choose destructive paths. Yet, he writes, such suffering can deepen compassion and make the heart more open and selfless.

Saba also addresses hostility and misunderstanding from people who may oppose Christians despite receiving no offense from them. He encourages believers to respond by examining their own conduct, acknowledging that words, gestures, or expressions can sometimes cause unintended hurt. He cites St. Tikhon of Zadonsk, who reportedly apologized after an atheist struck him, as an example of humility.

The Metropolitan further urges Christians to pray for those who mistreat or misunderstand them rather than continually dwelling on conflicts. He presents the cross as an instrument of spiritual transformation, through which hidden weaknesses such as anger, pride, and impatience can be exposed and gradually overcome. In this understanding, patiently carrying relational difficulties can lead to greater love and spiritual maturity.

Previously, the UOJ reported that the Antiochian Archdiocese will hold its inaugural Young Adult Retreat in Michigan.